Make Decisions That Energizes Yourself
Amy Choi (Hong Kong) and Luo Gang (Shenzhen) December 15, 2015
Since I have engaged in kinesiology, I have considered that the following principle as useful and straight-forward. This allows me to have a clear direction and guidance in making decisions whether in big or small matters of work or personal life: time management, choice between to do or not to do, to have or not to have, and to eat or not to eat etc. This enables me to have a more balanced life. The principle is that when you are in times of indecisiveness, make the decision that would energize yourself most! If it is not clear enough by pure noticing, use muscle-checking as a reference to help you make decisions. If there is someone in your family who knows how to do muscle-checking, and there is such a consensus between couples or between colleagues, little discussion is needed in a lot of matters. Decisions can be easily made.
Below is a sharing a received from Luo Gang, Licensed Brain Gym Instructor/Consultant, Registered Touch for Health Instructor, Licensed Qinesiology M.E.L. Camp Instructor:
On the third day of Qinesiology Casework Workshop in Shenzhen, a student asked:
Student: How to distinguish between the intuition that comes from the heart and that from the brain?
Conrad Ho: (in gist) The human body is made of many cells. I believe that each cell has an independent living body, which can act independently. In other words, every cell can have its own awareness and decision. That is why it can be very chaotic. The less integrated are these decisions, the closer to mental breakdown is a person. However, when one finds a meaning in life, such chaotic awareness can be slowly integrated. I believe the so-called intuition comes from the decision of every cell. So which is our best intention? We can have a lot of intentions. However, it is difficult to say which is the best. My criteria is I would choose the intention that can strengthen or energize myself.
Student: When I did the exercise just then, it seemed that my neck had been broken. That reminded me that one of my ancestors hang himself, and another one was killed with the head having been cut off. I don’t know if my feeling was connected to these incidents.
Conrad Ho: (in gist) I always say: “Ask why something important is not the most important”. If your neck somehow can move freely through certain mechanism, the cause is no longer important. Also, if there is no answer to such a question, I would not spend any effort to pursue it. To me, there is no answer to this type of question. I would only ask how to make it better and what to do to strengthen it.
The goals of the private sessions of today’s class are:
I live my life,
I accept and love myself,
Group balancing goal: I walk on the balanced point.