Conflict Matters Not With Love In The Background

Amy Choi (Hong Kong, China) July 25, 2014

My teacher and husband, Conrad Ho, was at Dalian this week for the Movement Enhances Learning Camp (M.E.L. Camp). When I woke up this morning, I saw his article in We Chat. It said when conflict arose between individuals, a good way to manage emotion was to reflect factually on what had happened without suppressing the emotion under safe circumstance. I felt sad reading it. Just think about it, husband and wife, parents and children, friends, colleagues and societies would have conflict under stressful situations, and there are even wars between societies. Such events happen all the time.

What would be the course of event during and after the conflict? For example, if there is conflict between a couple, would they make up quickly after quarrelling, continue to have cold war or end their relationship? If there are differences and conflict between societies, could they resolve them peacefully? I believe the key lies in the word ¡§love”. Against the background of love, no matter what technique is used, be it balancing or others, conflict can be turned into peace and harmony.

Then what is “love”? A verse in the Bible says:”Bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, endure all things.” This is a fairly good description of the behaviour of love. I think love is a relatively coherent energy field that can be felt by the heart. This energy field is the same thing as seeing greatness of the cosmic creator in the beauty of flowers and plants.

I wish that the children of M.E.L. camp, in the field of all-embracing love of Conrad, Ms Liu Xiaohong, the organiser, Dearfox, and all the instructors and in the field of the beautiful Dalian Medical University, would continue with their M.E.L. balancing. I also wish that there would be trust and love between couples, parents and children, friends, colleagues, and countries. What does it matter if there is a bit of conflict and pain in the field of love?